De-hustling like it’s my job …because, in actuality, it is my job. I don’t want to hustle. Been there…done that. My generation was raised to think that we had to do it all to have it all. We have to be girl bosses and hustlers with 639574 streams of income paving our way in a… Continue reading de-hustling
Allow me to reintroduce myself… My name is Tiffany. I’m 42 – and I love my 40s. My husband is my high school sweetheart, and even though I throw him an occasional side eye (when he cannot find his car key for my car because it’s NOT ON THE TRAY ON THE NIGHTSTAND WHERE IT… Continue reading allow me to reintroduce myself
Thirteen. Thirteen weeks of four kids back in school for their senior, freshman, and sixth grade years. Thirteen weeks of spending Friday nights in the stands watching our daughter cheer for the last time. Thirteen weeks of five-nights a week golf lessons and twice weekly midday golf matches. Thirteen weeks of five-nights a week tennis… Continue reading charleston
Senior year. I can’t even type it without tearing up a little. At the risk of sounding entirely cliché, I cannot believe we are already here. Time has flown. I need a do-over so I can enjoy it one more time while our first littlest love is still little. I remember being in Hawaii and… Continue reading senior year.
Privilege It’s a hot topic these days. But, in all honesty, everyone is missing the point. Privilege is real – in so many ways. But it seems most focus on the ways in which privilege benefits others without taking a moment to focus on how privilege benefits themselves. Privilege is real in my life…and I… Continue reading privilege.
July. Or, as I like to call it, the Saturday of Summer. It’s the month our family leans into summer full force. This, of course, makes June the Friday of Summer. The kids are fresh out of school for the summer, but there are a few lingering activities. Namely, cheer camp for our Varsity cheerleader… Continue reading the saturday of summer
Seventeen That’s how many years – tomorrow – it’s been since Craig and I became parents. It’s been seventeen years since our beautiful Addison Grace was born. Seventeen years of trying, failing, and learning every day that we are perfectly imperfect and we will never get it right every time. Seventeen years of making mistakes.… Continue reading seventeen
Life lately Where do I even begin? It’s officially the first week of July, which means it’s the beginning of the second half of the year – or as I like to call it…the best half of the year. Gator football The ‘ber months The holiday season The time of year when I absolutely come… Continue reading lately.
Waterfront living Raising our little ones in the charming coastal community of Crystal River is a no-brainer, and many of our neighbors choose this area for its waterfront location. There’s nothing quite like waterfront living in Crystal River, where the views are serene, the sunsets are spectacular, and the manatees are as much your neighbor… Continue reading waterfront living in crystal river florida
Home It’s not the same thing as a house. As a realtor, I get to see a lot of gorgeous houses, but not all of them feel like home. It’s not the square footage. It’s not the quality of the granite countertops. A house isn’t a home until you make it one – and not… Continue reading house < home
We all have the same 24 hours in a day. Um…no. We do not. We all have 24 hours in a day, but they’re not the same. My friend, let me explain something that’s not quite brain surgery – but I can see how it would be difficult for some to understand – my 24… Continue reading 24 hours
Luxury For many, the idea of luxury is an expensive car, a luxe home, and a closet full of Manolos. Do me and my closet full of Manolos disagree? No, we certainly do not. However, real luxury isn’t so much about the things in life as it is the *things* in life. While I’m not… Continue reading real luxury
It’s okay… It’s okay to do things the way you want them done during the holidays. Honestly. It is. In fact, I highly encourage you to enjoy the holidays precisely the way you love to enjoy the holidays. It’s your life. Your family. Your time. This reminder feels extra important this year. Addy is a… Continue reading it’s okay…
Ah…Friday, at long last. I don’t say that because I live for the weekend or anything of that nature, but because it’s the Friday prior to Thanksgiving week. Thanksgiving week is one of my favorite weeks of the year. The kids are home from school. We spend a great deal of time in the kitchen,… Continue reading friday fifteen
Holiday traditions. A group text went out last week detailing just our neighborhood holiday schedule between our family and our two best friend families. It’s…busy. Any other time of year, I’d balk at the idea of having so many things going on so many days in a row, but the weeks leading up to Christmas… Continue reading holiday family traditions
“Middle Age Kids” No, they’re not in their 50s, but they are no longer babies and not quite adults. We are no longer changing diapers and reading bedtime stories…they read to themselves at bedtime now. We aren’t sounding out words or asking them to identify shapes. We no longer own a car seat. Strollers are… Continue reading raising ‘middle-age’ kids
That’s the way the cookie 'Crumbls" And no one enjoys a warm, gooey, fresh-baked cookie quite like myself. My grandmother taught me to bake her famous chocolate chip cookies, and there’s nothing I love more than the scent of those cookies baking…I’m instantly transported to my childhood standing in my grandmother’s beautiful kitchen. I miss… Continue reading the way the cookie ‘crumbls’
Seven years That’s how long ago tiffanyraiford.com was launched, and that’s also how long it’s been since I’ve introduced myself to new followers and subscribers. My email list has grown significantly over the past few months, so it’s time for me to rectify that. Who am I? I’m Tiffany. And I’ll tell you immediately that… Continue reading me.
Joy. I recently came across a phrase I didn’t recognize (don’t judge…I also didn’t know anyone but Taylor Swift, Meryl Streep, and Margot Robbie in the recent Golden Globes red carpet outfit coverage. I am elderly. It takes me some time to learn about what all the cool kids know…and most of the time, I… Continue reading joy.
Rest. Reset. Slow & Deliberate. What Christmas break looked like for us. We made the choice this year to relax and reset. Life is exhausting anymore, and we haven’t enough time to sit down, enjoy our home, and enjoy just being without doing. It wasn’t merely necessary…it was imperative. Life is hard this season. The… Continue reading Reset
Mornings are hard. There was a time I was a morning person, but that time has long since passed and now I’m more of a ‘why would I want to leave the world’s most comfortable bed and the warmth of my husband next to me’ kind of person. Hey…I’m 40 now. I’m not really an… Continue reading morning motivation.
January. What a stupid month. Honestly. Let’s be real here…what is the point of January? And I ask that knowing full well it is the birth month of two of my favorite people in the world – both of whom I love celebrating, but also…January is stupid. It’s long. Whose idea was it to end… Continue reading january.
Eggnog Espresso Martini This is the part where I bore you with a long backstory you absolutely do not care about while simultaneously making it difficult for you to find the actual recipe I’m sharing. But I’m not going to do that today. All I’m going to say is that we are big fans of… Continue reading eggnog espresso martini
So, what’s the plan? The four words I have come to loathe more than any other, and the fastest way to earn an immediate no from me. I’m tired of making all the plans. I’m tired of organizing everything. I’m tired of always being the go-to for planning all the things in life. Every holiday,… Continue reading so…what’s the plan?
Spooky and Scary With goblins and ghosts running rampant over the next week, it’s obvious that Halloween is in the air. Halloween parties, Trunk or Treat events, fall festivals, and pumpkin patches galore…and So. Much. Sugary. Candy. I adore Halloween, but I don’t adore the abundance of Halloween candy that comes with it. Our kids… Continue reading halloween gift basket ideas
Happy National Pancake Day! Every weekday morning, while my husband is off taking our middle schooler and our high schooler to their respective schools, I’m at home with our nine-year-old twins inhaling my first cup of coffee and wondering why these kids have such abundant energy at such an ungodly hour. All right, so 7:30… Continue reading national pancake day giveaway
Back-to-school Today is the eighth day of school for our kids. The first week was great because they went to school twice, and then it was weekend. Last week was their first full week back to school, and today marks the first day of their second full week. We are exhausted. It happens every year… Continue reading back to school organization
Self-Care. The concept brings to mind images of spa days, champagne flutes and fully white robes, facials, massages, and quiet. Lovely as all of those are, and as much as I do enjoy a quality spa day with all of the above, this is not the kind of self-care I want to talk about today.… Continue reading self-care
Dear Husband and Children, I love you. I picked you. My sweet husband, I chose to spend my life with you when I was 18 years old, and I chose to have these babies with you because I never doubted you are the most amazing husband and father imaginable. From day one, you made it… Continue reading dear husband,
August Today is August first, meaning it’s back to nonstop living for us. Any other year, I’m over the moon excited about August. The kids going back to school, the end of the single worst season of the year is upon us (Fall officially begins for me on September 1), the beginning of the most… Continue reading boundaries.
Regret If I have one regret in life, it’s that I never thought to ask my grandmother for her recipe books prior to her death. Though, in my defense, she reunited with my grandfather in Heaven two weeks shy of the second anniversary of her 100th birthday (forever the inside joke we share), and I… Continue reading Chicken Piccata
Summer The season of doing all the things, doing nothing, and making a lot of last second plans. It’s also the season in which I find myself ordering last-minute outfits I need on my doorstep…yesterday. That means ordering from Amazon because nothing else will get here fast enough. Let’s be honest, it’s not like we… Continue reading Amazon Summer Fashion Must-Haves Under $40
Forty It’s on the horizon…three months away. I’m not nervous about aging. I enjoy it. Total transparency? I look great – I don’t look 40 at all, and I rather enjoy when people are shocked when they learn how old I am. So, of course, I don’t mind aging! One thing that I didn’t expect,… Continue reading Style At Almost 40
French Toast Breakfast is my favorite meal of the day. No, that’s a lie. It is not. Brunch is my favorite meal of the day. I don’t eat breakfast (I know, I know, don’t come at me health and fitness gurus…I’m not hungry in the morning, I never have been, and I’m not forcing myself… Continue reading french toast.
Scent. The first thing I notice when I walk into someone’s home is the scent (second is the dust on your floor trim...). After all, everyone’s home has a particular scent of its own, does it not? Scent is a funny thing…my kids can smell a certain laundry detergent and recognize it smells like their… Continue reading home fragrance
Together. It’s my favorite place to be. As I sit here on my own pool deck enjoying the sunshine and the quiet, I cannot help but reflect on the past week. Our little (ha!) family spent the kids’ Spring Break at their favorite resort. It’s become something of a tradition for us to head to… Continue reading together.
Thirteen. That’s the number of books I read in January. Anyone who knows me knows I don’t make New Year's Resolutions. I make goals. My goal for 2023 is to read a minimum of three books per month. I already like myself (a lot). My life is good. I’ve exceeded my expectations and goals for… Continue reading january books
January 2023. It’s been a slow month for my family. We started the year hosting a decadent dinner with friends and all the kids, and we spent the first enjoying the Bucs game against the North Carolina Panthers in a luxury corner suite with 34 of our friends and family members – what a day.… Continue reading january
I struggle with anxiety. I often fear the worst (for example, that the elementary school is calling right now to tell me my son is having another seizure despite the fact that it’s been three years and nine months since he had his one and only seizure). I overthink and overanalyze every single thing. All… Continue reading Peace.
Grief It’s such a complex emotion, and it’s one no two people handle in the same manner. I’m not even convinced the same person handles grief in the same manner on different occasions. When I lost my grandmother last year, my grief was profound. It also turns out that it’s prolonged. Even after almost a… Continue reading Grief
I struggle with anxiety. I think I have struggled with it my entire life, but I didn’t know I struggled with it until a few years ago. I thought I was obsessive-compulsive (how many people do you know who get out of their car and immediately vacuum the car after every drive and how many… Continue reading anxiety.
Moments There are moments in life that are just a little more special than others, and spring break 2022 was one filled with moments. We may travel often, but we rarely travel as just a family of six. We often have our friends and their kids with us. We have our extended family with us.… Continue reading moments.
Simplicity Maybe it’s because in six months I celebrate my last birthday in my 30s. Maybe it’s because I live such a busy life between four kids, a husband, my business, home, travel, and everyone’s activities that I crave something the simple. Maybe I miss my grandmother so much that I find myself channeling her… Continue reading simplicity.
Traveling with kids. My husband and I travel often, and we take the kids with us on 90% of our trips. We have four kids (and we’ve had four kids for 8 years now, so I will go say we are pretty good at knowing how to travel well as a family of six). I… Continue reading favorite florida family hotels
Priorities “That one simple word holds the key to either chaos or calm,” is a quote I came across on social media recently, and it resonated strongly. I don’t deal well with chaos – though it’s easy to assume that my life might closely resemble that being the mother of four kids, wife, and business… Continue reading priorities
There are no experts when it pertains to parenting, but there are many who have been there, done that, and who certainly have plenty to say about it. Being parents is the most fun my husband and I have ever had, but it’s also challenging. Oddly enough, it’s not been challenging in the way ‘everyone’… Continue reading for my kids.
Love It’s such a lovely thing to be in love. To love someone so much who loves you back. To be blessed with a forever kind of love is a beautiful thing, and it is always my hope that those who have it don’t take it for granted. Because February is the month of love… Continue reading love.
39. Tomorrow, the man I love turns 39. For eight entire months, I’ll be married to an older man, and I certainly won’t let him forget how fortunate he is to have a young wife. And, after my own birthday later this year, I won’t mention his young wife again until he turns 40. It’s… Continue reading thirty-nine.
Choices. Everyone has choices. Everyone makes decisions. Some are good, some are bad, some are boring, some are exciting; some are not the choices we want to make so much as those we need to make for the greater good. Let’s take a moment to flashback to this past weekend. My husband and I made… Continue reading choices.
Perspective. Patience. One thing I have an abundance of, and one thing I would adore having an ounce of. If you know me in real life, you know my patience level is below sea level. It’s below the grandest depths of the deepest oceans in the world’s most remote areas where life may or may… Continue reading patience
Tiffany Raiford 